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  • Re: Newbie

    Welcome @hasbroz. I’m so sorry about your DW. I think you will find yourself posting more and more as time goes on once you realize what a lifeline this forum is. It makes you feel less lonely - we a…
  • Beginning to Resent My Mom

    Hello everybody! My dear spouse recommended I write about my recent feelings in here to vent, maybe get some more insight. I am 26 and am the main caretaker for my mom for about 5 years now since her…
  • Re: Vacation Guilt

    I've been where you are and I'm so sorry you're going through this. We tried to keep my parents involved in our lives as my mom's dementia got worse, but both of them became quite…
  • Re: Vacation Guilt

    It’s ok to be honest. Tell him that you don’t feel your mom is able to make the trip because you aren’t going to be available to help care for her this time. That you and your spouse are going to be …
  • Re: Newbie

    Welcome. Feel free to post away. There are no bad posts. I'm sorry to hear about your DW. My DW was diagnosed in November2025 via a blood test. She is declining quickly. Stage 5 with some aspect…
  • WHERE DID MICHAEL GO? Caring for a spouse....

    I follow Michael Whelan on X. His wife has Parkinson's Dementia. He posted this today. He has written many books & is currently writing one about his beloved wife Rebecca and their journey. …
  • Re: Newbie

    Hello Hasbroz… Same, glad you found us but so sorry you had to. It amazes and breaks me every day watching in real time how this disease takes hold and basically wreaks what we had. I was terrified i…
  • Re: Newbie

    Welcome. We are here for you. Feel free to post about almost anything -ask advice, vent, just need to get thoughts out of your head, etc. There’s no need to be afraid to post. We don’t bite or judge,…
  • Re: Religious Caregivers

    Thank you Gram…I hopped right on that. Yes to Inspiration!
  • Re: Newbie

    @hasbroz Welcome, I’m glad you found this great community and decided to post. I’m sorry about your dear wife’s diagnosis, ALZ and what it does to our loved ones (and us) is truly heartbreaking. I’m …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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