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  • Re: A Fall

    I hear ya, ghphotog. I feel so utterly unequipped for this stage. I wanted so badly to keep her at home until the end, but the falling is something I’m not sure I can handle. Damnit.
  • Re: SAD/Angry/SAD/Guilt/SAD

    https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/258292#Comment_258292 Thank you for these kind words of encouragement - I needed them especially today. And I fear Stage six is just around the corner.
  • SAD/Angry/SAD/Guilt/SAD

    I have read this situation here but have never experienced it myself until recently: My DH is stage 5 VD and some days cannot dress himself. He has a son, daughter and stepdaughter from a previous ma…
  • Re: new to group but not to dementia

    https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/258283#Comment_258283 Thank you, Lori, I am sorry that you are going through it too. Thank you for the advice. I try to stay out of the way when he starts …
  • Re: new to group but not to dementia

    My dh gets angry at times to. I to am not sure what to do. All I can say is take time for yourself and take care of yourself.
  • Re: Mom is about to be homeless, how do we decide what to do?

    Thanks all for the comments so far. I guess I should not be surprised at the unanimous agreement toward placing her in a MC facility. Now that I am reviewing the DBAT again, she may only be in Stage …
  • Re: new to group but not to dementia

    Thank you so much. You give good advice. I won't hesitate to flee and call 911 if I feel it necessary. I already have durable and medical poa's, so I am good there. i have medical proxy to …
  • Re: new to group but not to dementia

    https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/258265#Comment_258265 Thank you so much. I knew that I would find help here. Good luck and best wishes to you in your journey. It's hard but having ot…
  • A Fall

    Falling has become more of a thing for my poor DW. This last one was my fault…trying to get pants pulled up and down she went. Now at the emergency room as her wrist looked a mess. Damnit.
  • Re: A Fall

    Falls area so common with dementia. I hate to see people in MC that could walk unassisted but there comes a point that they have to be in a gerri chair with the tray installed to keep them from falli…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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