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  • Re: First Day of MC

    My DW is on Medi-Cal and part of the PACE program which is there to keep a LO at home as long as possible. What I found out was that when the person can’t stay home any longer, the program will help …
  • Re: First Day of MC

    I’m getting close but not quite where you are yet. If you don’t mind me asking, how did you decide on ‘the one’? Was it boxes that were checked or was it more of a feeling? It is such a stressful and…
  • Re: Days are getting tougher

    I am so grateful for all the comments and suggestions everyone has offered. I just have to find the right solution that will work for my DW….and also for me. She is already delusional about people be…
  • How to Find In-Home Support

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  • Re: First Day of MC

    I placed my DW three years ago, she has since passed away. Everyone's experience seems to vary quite a bit but this was our experience. I did not involve her in any planning or even tell her abo…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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