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  • Re: I Hate Christmas

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  • Re: Lack of comprehension

    I appreciate all the comments and I agree this is a really hard part of this disease. This past weekend I was more stressed than usual and then it dawned on me this happens usually when a new behavio…
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    thank you all for the kind supportive words. Note: my wife has been in hospice for six months now she has two small bed sores on her hip and buttock
  • Re: How he parts his hair -

    So great, makes me laugh! Thanks for sharing that!!! Just curious, does your husband have anosognosia? My wife and I have similar moments where she’ll say something that is confused, or not what she …
  • Re: First Waking Thought

    I can relate completely. Most days, after being verbally bludgeoned for several hours, I don't even want to be here anymore. If I didn't have a little dog who loves and depends on me, I wouldn't care…
  • Re: Making my list, checking it twice

    I sit at the Costco food court, eat greasy pizza, and people watch. Makes for some interesting viewing and occasionally good conversation. No one there knows my story or asks how DH is doing, and I c…
  • Re: First Waking Thought

    Regarding not getting treatment for the myeloma…I can understand the guilt but I like to think it’s more compassionate in the long run. Someone once responded to my post on a medical intervention tha…
  • Behavioral issues

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  • Sudden changes

    My mother's birthday was early November, and that's the last time she seemed almost like herself. She soon became verbally aggressive and anxious. After a false negative test result, she was finally …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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