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  • Re: exhausted/depressed to the point of almost non functional

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  • Re: APHASIA

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  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (204)

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  • Bible Verse for Caregivers 4/13/2025

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  • Re: "Girlfriend" in Memory Care

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  • Re: On the hard days…

    Thank you, I am going to print this and read daily!! I do feel this way, and these past few weeks have been a brutal test of my resolve.
  • Re: APHASIA

    Thank you annie51 and a big thank you to everyone for their replies it’s just nice to know that you are not alone. SDianeL I’ll check out that site Thankyou. You know we have a friend at Sailability …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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