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  • Re: Gentleness and Continuation

    My husband is not aggressive either. He won’t even leave the house any more, even for a drive to the beach which is 10 minutes from our home. YouTube videos have become my personal guru for repairs o…
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  • Re: when to stop work

    I suggest you stop working when your outside work schedule disproportionately impacts your at home needs. Only you will be able to say, "when!"
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  • Re: worried about my own memory

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  • Stopped Memantine

    Hey everyone! So I just wanted to share a bit of my journey with my Mom with Dementia. We were giving her Memantine and the whole time she was on it she was having vivid dreams that woke her up and m…
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  • Re: worried about my own memory

    Yes, since it’s front and center every day, I think that contributes to our worry. Since DH I’m trying to check all the healthy boxes but it’s pretty much impossible when it comes to sleep. So I’m ex…
  • Re: worried about my own memory

    its awful I question myself all the time not much stimulation mainly 24/7 caring chores. Lack of sleep makes things worse too DH was up from 3am on the hour last night although I try to rest through …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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