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    I would love to go to Harpswell. It looks wonderful!
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  • Re: Sundowning now all day

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  • New Member, First Post - Power of Attorney

    I have three siblings and one lives fifteen minutes away from my mom. I live in another state but manage all her finances and anything else I can to take the load off our sibling who lives locally. W…
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    My DW has been sundowning for quite a while but this past week it seems to start up each morning. She goes to bed crying and wakes up crying. I can calm her down most times and get her redirected but…
  • Re: Boyfriend with early stage

    I think that is where I am, thinking that I am able to manage now and that it will stay like this. I just see a loving, kind man who is deeply in love with me. And I feel the same, not able to imagin…
  • Re: At My Wits End

    Though I haven’t opened my door yet, he apologized and said he didn’t mean to do it but he still thinks I need help.( he had his ex wife committed to a psych hospital when they were married. Maybe he…
  • Re: Phone calls

    Yes I also searched "random strangers", lol it was not was I was hoping for. My mom is still living alone because I'm in the works with guardianship papers so I definitely can't "disap…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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