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    Thank you for sharing all of this. It’s incredibly helpful to consider what I’ll be facing soon.
  • Re: Home health care

    If you can handle the expense or the resource is available for any amount of hours, take advantage. You say that you are a little tired. It won't get better. In short order you will be a LOT tir…
  • Re: Leqembi

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  • Re: No short term memory

    I am so sorry for you, my wife does the same thing, and frequently it’s about a hallucination thought that occurred to her. I too pray for patience, and it is tough. I know I should always remember t…
  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (212)

    Mom was admitted for IV steroids. The hospitalist assigned knows her well and took the time to re-read her chart and refresh his memory. The triage and ED nurse were both of the pit-bull no-nonsense …
  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (212)

    I'm sorry about the calf, Lorita. It's a sad thing when the little ones don't make it. We had an early Thanksgiving meal today at the senior center, with turkey etc. One of the men mak…
  • Re: My DH has changed and I’m afraid

    It takes a lot of my creativity to get my husband to the memory care doctor. Initially, I made an appt for him & told the doctor’s office of the situation. That I should see & talk to the doc…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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