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  • Re: New to this Group

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  • Re: The weight of the world on my shoulders

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  • Re: Am I being unreasonable?

    Just a follow up. I’m taking the advice that everybody gave me along with thoughts and discussions with various family to make changes in my future. I also wanna add that after two days in the hospit…
  • Re: New to this Group

    I do have POA. It is hard because he hasn't always been like this. We've been married 36 years of which most were good, but since his diagnosis, everything is changing. I know he is different because…
  • New to this Group

    I am caring for my DH who has had cognitive decline over the past 4 yrs. As I write this, I can't believe it's been that long. I am trying to abide by the rules, however find myself breaking the rule…
  • 60 minutes interview

    This was posted by a neighbor. Can you imagine being worried about retaliation for speaking about Alzheimer’s research?

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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