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  • Re: Crashing

    Big hug to you as we walk together, helping hold each other up.
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    I'm so sorry this is so hard on you, please believe me when I say we are not as strong as we pretend to be. We get a lot of strength right here from each other. You need to be strong for yoursel…
  • Re: Crashing

    Can you get her in respite care fore a couple of days to give yourself a breather? Ask hospice about it. You need one.
  • Re: Crashing

    CindyBum, my heart is breaking for you. I have no wisdom to share with you, as I am trailing far behind you on this awful journey. Please hang in there. You are a hero to many of us!
  • Re: Crashing

    Such a nightmare for you and your DW. Would she tolerate a wheelchair for outside walks? Hospice could probably provide one. The movement and fresh are good but not if falls are inevitable. So much i…
  • Re: I'm new here. My 66 year old wife has Alzheimer's. It's rough!

    I’m sorry you are going through this. It is one hell of a horrible disease. Nothing is easy.
  • Re: Need to say no

    I still am finding it hard to get up, take a shower, and get dressed. I am sleeping in my clothes, I am too tired to get into my nightgown. I can't make even the easiest decisions and get anxiou…
  • What would they do in a different country?

    I always hear that healthcare is better in other countries, so I'm wondering what a better healthcare system would do in this situation. My husband was in the hospital for 4 weeks for ulcerative…
  • Re: My DH passed away this morning...

    Thank you all for your kind words. I do believe he is at peace now, and in the loving arms of his mother and father. I am going to do my best to find a way to move forward without him, but he will al…
  • Re: Showering

    Thanks to you all for the kind words and suggestions. SDianeL, I do in fact have the book (probably time to actually read it 😊). I’ve tried a few of the suggestions given, but will continue to keep …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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