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Coping
I'm a caregiver for my Mom long distance. I don't have any support and I'm not sure how to cope anymore. She is declining and I feel she needs different meds because she is starting to…1 -
Re: how best to cope with continent spouse who needs help 5x per night to pee
Sadly not much you can do. I don’t think I would put diapers on him because that will come soon enough. Many with dementia get agitated and aggressive when they become incontinent and have to be chan…3 -
Re: DH is now at peace
I can imagine how shocked you must have felt with his sudden collapse and soon later failing to breath. His ability to let you know he loved you is a beautiful, lasting, gift. You acted selflessly wh…2 -
Re: DH is now at peace
My sincere condolences. Peace and strength in the days ahead. I truly believe this is better than a long decline to the bitter end of Stage 7.2 -
Re: DH is now at peace
I’m so sorry for your loss. No we are never prepared for stage 8. Making the decision to DNR is the most unselfish thing you could have done for him. We want them to stay but we don’t want them to su…2 -
Re: DH is now at peace
So sorry to hear this. We all will experience this in “the end”. We all have these stories. Of a sudden awakening of their mind. Be unusually aware, communicative, cognizant of who you are and where …3 -
Re: DH is now at peace
I’m so very sorry @annie51 … thank goodness you were there with him with words of love and comfort. That means so much. Praying for you and hoping precious memories will bring you peace.2 -
Re: DH is now at peace
@annie51 I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear husband. What a blessing that you had a good visit and that he was able to express his love for you.2 -
Re: DH is now at peace
My hope is that your memories will sustain you through your grief. Please know that all of us here care.2 -
Re: DH is now at peace
Dear @annie51 I’m so sorry for your loss. No, I don’t think anyone is really prepared for this. You had a good visit with him. I hope those memories are a comfort for you. Prayers, so sorry.2
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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