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  • Re: What's the one thing that gets to you the most

    What an interesting question and look at all the interesting responses, well here goes. For me, at the moment, I think it is two part. First part is what is the most frustrating - DH standing in my w…
  • Re: What's the one thing that gets to you the most

    hi everyone. I’m not really sure what to say because my situation is a bit complicated. My partner wasn’t diagnosed officially, but there is a possibility of beginnings of dementia. I believe the mai…
  • Re: What's the one thing that gets to you the most

    sometimes the less you speak and try to direct the better the results. I see how the Hospice aid works with my wife. And a lot of times she’s just very quiet with some gentle direction. I find that h…
  • Re: Just Curious

    For me, it helps to just agree with their conclusion. If you try to reason, it can just open up a can of worms.
  • Re: Aphasia

    same here. It hurts so much because he is everything to me. We were really best friends, and I miss being able to talk with him. I usually respond that everything is great and he did such a good job …
  • Re: Geographic infusion discussions

    Snowbirding is a wonderful way to enjoy the best of both worlds. But the reality of dementia is to maintain consistency. DH and I were snowbirds for at least 25 years. It became more difficult as the…
  • Re: Aphasia

    Yes, communication is very difficult these days, and I have gone back to reading old text messages and old emails to remind myself what a highly intelligent, articulate person my DH used to be. Now h…
  • Re: Aphasia

    So very sad for you @Biggles As others have said, your posts truly give us a ‘window’ to view what’s ahead for us. I thank you and send a big hug 💝
  • Re: Aphasia

    Looking at my experience, that deep sadness is intensified because I’m taking care of a LO with dementia. Someone posted about Dasha Kiper’s book, Travelers to Unimaginable Lands. That really hit me …
  • Re: Physical Aggression

    In addition to the suggestions mentioned above, I would make sure you have a house key hidden somewhere outside in case you’re not able to grab your keys on the way out. My husband has, inadvertently…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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