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  • Re: Guilt

    I can’t take credit for this statement, but try to remember that you’re not doing this TO him, you’re doing this FOR him. My DH is in the hospital right now and headed to rehab tomorrow or Saturday. …
  • Re: Sometimes I just want to hide

    ((HUGS))
  • Anyone experience a bone spur

    My DH had an open sore between his toe. It healed but on his follow-up appt, his podiatrist took x-rays and saw two bone spurs. He suggested surgery to remove them, but he also said with the Alzheime…
  • Re: Guilt

    It took everything I had not to bring him back home - even after 2 months I still wanted to. But then I remembered why I did it - he was needing much more care than I was able to provide and it was b…
  • Re: Guilt

    I know exactly how you feel (guilt) I left my wife in a proper nursing home and one day is all I could take and went back the following day to take her home. Lost sleep all that night too. Guilt feel…
  • Alz/ Dementia diagnoses 12 years

    I'm new to this discussion, but I'm thankful that I can connect to individuals that understand my situation. My husband was diagnosed with Dementia 12 years ago. Until May 2024, he was able to stay h…
  • Rapid Progression

    The progression of Alzheimer’s can jump suddenly. My wife was diagnosed in July 2016. Her rate of decline stayed fairly steady until last December. In memory care, she walked 12 to 18 hours a day, sh…
  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (203)

    up…working on mortgages.ELOCS and taxes. I would rather be painting!
  • Re: First post

    When our loved ones have unrealistic expectations, it can be helpful to go along with them, but "not right now." So instead of saying he can't go to his parents' house, you might say we can…
  • Re: Coping

    More hugs for you. It is a different kind of grief, to mourn the loss of the person you love while they are still alive. Cry, talk, seek emotional and spiritual support from other loved ones, friends…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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