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  • Re: Illness

    BTW cannot take tamaflu or Plaxovid or any anti histamine so I just have to grin and bear it! OMG DH is coming to sit next to me yet again!
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  • Re: How to tell your teenagers

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  • Re: Feeling So Sad

    it’s so good and comforting to talk to people who understand. I like breathing and I too have a wonderful older brother who lives away and I think I will talk to him more often. Thankyou
  • Re: Talking about someone in the 3rd person while speaking to them

    My mom often refers to my brother as “ your dad”. I questioned her the first time she did it. She said she knew he wasn’t my dad and it was just a slip. I think that is true. Things just seem to get …
  • Re: Feeling So Sad 11

    My DH doesn't really know who I am nor does he know our children. He is now at stage 7. I have been on this journey for about 10+ years. I do know that the sadness never completely goes away. I do ha…
  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (203)

    Morning, I haven't watched he news this.morning so hope all The awful fires are out. Thry were mostly between I44, the highway between Tulsa and OKC and I 35. The fires were in town burning houses, a…
  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (203)

    Beware the Ides of March. Beth— The slide in range in that video is the one mom has. I did show it to her, but she can't get behind me ruining the look by removing the bezels. She bought her applianc…
  • Re: Repetition

    Oh my goodness, someone who is dealing with the same as I am. I am 71 years old and I care for my 88 year old mother who is in moderate stages Alzheimer’s. She has always repeated questions over and …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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