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  • Re: The Cavalry Is Not Coming

    Well, Bill, you are right. I posted earlier that I understood what you were saying but I wasn't quite there yet in accepting that the cavalry wasn't coming. Within the week, the car broke d…
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  • Re: My DH is wanting to spend every minute with me

    I understand how you must feel. My DH wants me around him just about all of the time - there are times I need to do other things. I wonder if he really understands why I am not with him all of the ti…
  • Re: ‘Me Time’ Confusion

    Dear Biggles. I am not as far into this awful journey as you, so have no experience to offer. Only to say ‘go with your instincts’. It sounds like one of the Carers you are comfortable with. Are thes…
  • Anyone experiencing body pains

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  • Re: personal hygiene

    It's a real fight to get my wife to change her wet pants and underwear (diaper). It's taken as long as 1.5 hours to do it. But once I can get the underwear on it goes smoothly. The nurse ha…
  • Re: Just starting infusions

    Hi, My hubby just had his 3rd infusion (3/4 of full dose). Has had no ARIA symptoms yet. He will have MRI again in a little less than 2 weeks. After 2nd one (1/2 of full dose), he was extremely tired…
  • Re: ‘Me Time’ Confusion

    if you do not want to leave for the two hours, is there a project or task you could work on together with the carer? Prep meals maybe? It’s good to hear you will be getting some help for the house ma…
  • Hoping I’m doing the best for my dad.

    Hello all. I’m a new member here. I’ve been caring for my dad for nearly 15 years now. He went from being my rock to depending on me for everything. I am 1 of 6 living children that my dad has. My mo…
  • Not eating and losing weight

    My DH appetite is bad. He has lost so much weight. Yes I've tried the protein shakes they are a hit and miss. I keep snakes around. If I can get him to eat once a day I'm lucky. I've t…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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