Have any questions about how to use the community? Check out the Help Discussion.

Popular Posts

  • Re: Late middle stage dementia

    Trottingalong is right……someone needs to step up, but you have no legal authority and need to protect your own health. You have done your best in reaching out to the son, but he has shown his true co…
  • Re: How do I go about transferring my parent to another memory care

    Your original post asked about “approach[ing] the subject of transferring my parent to a different memory care,” which suggested to me that you may be concerned about initiating the subject with the …
  • Re: Late middle stage dementia

    Since the son is probably the decision maker, I’m not sure telling him what he needs to do is the right approach. I have attached a staging tool. I would suggest filling this out by checking off the …
  • Re: Late middle stage dementia

    https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/265368#Comment_265368 I would just stay away. You have attempted to contact the son twice and he hasn’t responded. For your own health it’s best to walk aw…
  • Re: Newbie

    Early in my wife's disease I printed out the SAGE (Self Administered Gerocognitive Examination) test I found online and when there was another couple over that knew she was having problems I rec…
  • Re: New to Memory Care

    Give it time. Moving is hard for everyone, so expect it to be especially hard for someone with dementia. My mom has been in MC for 6 months, and she is doing well. She participates in most of the act…
  • Re: He did it again

    https://alzconnected.org/discussion/75286/he-did-it-again https://alzconnected.org/discussion/75286/he-did-it-again my DH was the same way. His PCP put him on Citalopram which seems to help him. I wa…
  • Re: Late middle stage dementia

    Welcome. So sorry about your GF. It's a heartbreaking disease. We understand how you feel. I would try to talk to the son again. You can read some of the posts here to him or tell him to call th…
  • Re: Long term Care Insurance

    There is a relatively new Medicare program called Guide. It can provide up to 75 hours of respite care a year, and is starting to be available in more areas. I do not know much about it, use the sear…
  • Re: Long term Care Insurance

    Here's a couple of other pieces of info. If/when your husband qualifies for hospice that is covered 100% by medicare. Also there are medicade trusts that can be formed. You'd have to get a …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
Read more