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  • Re: Take a cruise?

    Your description of your DH is very similar to mine. My DH (70 M) and I (64 F) did not get away from the cold weather during winter 25 (we're in Michigan) and I saw significant decrease in his a…
  • Re: Taking Away Driving Privileges

    It was a process with my husband. Initially, when he was in the MCI stage, I talked to him about driving only close to home and places where he was very used to driving. He was fine with that. Then h…
  • Re: When the marriage was not good.

    https://alzconnected.org/discussion/67211/when-the-marriage-was-not-good Marriage is as complex and so are relationships. The fact that your LO stayed in the marriage says a lot. Not everyone is capa…
  • Re: Mom was newly diagnosed

    Welcome. All the symptoms you described sound normal for dementia. Sometimes a uti can cause a progression of symptoms. Vascular dementia can have a progression that moves in steps rather than a stea…
  • Re: Leqembi Feedback

    I just had Leqembi infusion #40. I have had zero reactions to the infusions. I walk out of the infusion center feeling exactly the same as walking into the infusion center. Well, perhaps I have a lit…
  • Re: My DH is wanting to spend every minute with me

    Boy…do I know how stifling that is. Sometimes my DW startles me when all of sudden she’s right at my back and I don’t hear her coming. I crashed hard, hard by waiting too long to get help. I’m going …
  • Re: DH fixated on being able to drive.

    @Color Blue You have my sincere sympathy on this aspect. We lived this with dad. Driving was not just about "independence" for him as much as it defined him as a man. The loss of that privi…
  • Re: Terrified!

    Welcome to the place for info, support and where you can vent. We understand what you are going through. I also recommend a hospice evaluation. They are wonderful. They provide so much help. Equipmen…
  • Re: Stage 5 and not aware

    I have attached a link about anosognosia. It’s a very difficult symptom to deal with. You might see some improvement if you change your approach. No judgement, it’s hard to do. The number one rule he…
  • Re: Stage 5 and not aware

    @Karl38 That's classic anosognosia. Your wife's reality is that she's living the life she did years ago with the same cognition, skills and participation level she could sustain then. …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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