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Re: waste of time and energy
Dear M1, you know these people and you know the history. Texting a response one time sounds reasonable. Just as blocking their number afterwards sounds reasonable. You don’t need this. And your partn…1 -
Re: Guilty, Not Guilty
Cheers! FWIW, I am a liquid Melatonin fan. It took the edge off for DH many times for temporary situations where I needed him to feel comfortable and just cooperate. It causes no interference with hi…1 -
Re: Guilty, Not Guilty
Oh my, that feeling of guilt. I'm starting my 8th year of this long journey. Guilt has become a part of my life. It will happen over and over. CindyBum - enjoy your respite while you can - there will…3 -
Re: How to make time for calls etc. that involve talking about his dementia when he's always listening.
In our house dementia or anything pertaining to it is not discussed. My DH will tell me he is foggy or really can’t understand or remember things and will ask me if I think he has dementia. I always …5 -
Re: How to make time for calls etc. that involve talking about his dementia when he's always listening.
Ditto everything M1 said. Do not discuss dementia with him. Also, I agree with your LO: don't focus only on dementia, this is the time to enjoy life. Not to put your head in the sand, but to get your…4 -
Re: How to make time for calls etc. that involve talking about his dementia when he's always listening.
Welcome to the forum, though sorry you are facing this. Don't feel guilty, you have to start acting independently of him in order to take care of him. Make all the excuses you need, get someone to st…6 -
Re: Rivastigmine impact on bundle branch blockage
All of the acetylcholinesterase inhibitors can cause slow heart rate and fainting (syncope) as well as conduction abnormalities. But a lot of other things can cause bundle branch blocks too. The bund…1 -
Re: waste of time and energy
It's not "passive aggressive." It's a situation that requires a firm boundary, which is best for you and your LO's health and protection. You DO know best and your instincts about this are …1 -
Re: Staying up all night and wanting to go home
I don't disagree with you that it is not a substitute for a long term medical protocol. But much like my weighing (and then disregarding) the black box warnings on Seroquel, the unregulated aspect of…1 -
Re: Guilty, Not Guilty
You deserve the break, your wife deserves to see her big family and her family needs to see her before she declines further. So there is nothing for you to feel guilty about.4
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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