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  • Re: Need some advice

    Just fix it. Soon he probably won't be using it at all.
  • Re: Long term concerns

    BREAKING: President Trump just dismantled the fake media narrative on the funding freeze. TRUMP: I am restating right now - the media has purposefully created confusion... Social Security, Medicaid, …
  • Re: Xmas decorations everywhere...

    Is it possible for you to pack up a little bit at a time while he’s sleeping to get the simplified process moving? Then just continue in that manner the next day as if he had started it? Or instead, …
  • Re: Long term concerns

    I can help. I also don't believe politicians or the media. I've been researching things since 2003 when I retired. I go find and read the actual executive orders. They are on The White House website.…
  • Re: hello I am new to the group

    hi Desi, if you state has PACE programs, try reaching out to your local program, I had an extremely positive experience enrolling my DW in our local program. We received medications, in home day care…
  • Re: Touring memory care - Plan B

    I know what a difficult decision it is. I had planned on keeping my DH as long as I was physically able. I would have had VA caregiver support. In November 2023 I was diagnosed with rare aggressive b…
  • Re: I’m angry and resentful!

    I’m angry at myself for the times I yell at DH. It’s always something very minor and at the end of the day. I’m real sad that the two of us can’t lovingly comfort and forgive the other like we did th…
  • Re: Long term concerns

    What he did does not affect Medicare or medicaid or any individual funding. Please do not create panic.
  • Re: Long term concerns

    The press is still trying to create panic. We need to be careful of what we watch and hear. We have been lied to for a long time. Medicare and Medicaid are not being interrupted or interfered with. T…
  • Delusions or Dreams

    I'm not sure if what my DH is having are delusions or something else. The episodes seem to occur after sleep or a nap. I think that he is having very vivid dreams and when he wakes up instead of real…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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