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Re: Respite
I suppose you can eventually use this to explain to her why you’ve placed her ( once you have). Not to be unkind, but to say ‘you are correct, I haven’t been doing the best job so I’ve found someplac…1 -
Re: Helping Mom Get Help
My advice would be to just be to visit and enjoy time with her and let the facility do their job. If you get involved she may end up angry and resentful of you. Let the staff take the heat. I hope th…2 -
Re: I need a hug please
I'm definitely with the side that says call the CA friends and explain why you can't host them. They will understand - and it is possible that they didn't agree to come at all. As far …2 -
Re: Frustrated and overwhelmed
So many of us have experienced bizarre behaviors with our loved ones. Your new friends on this website will offer so much understanding and compassion, which is so desperately needed during this time…4 -
Re: Frustrated and overwhelmed
You are in a safe place to open up, share your concerns, your fears and your experiences. Too often those who are not living in this nightmare cannot fully understand the experiences we face often. U…5 -
Re: Fidget and Anxiety Reducing Toys
We used fidgets and other "toys" for children or memory care patients for anxiety. They can help but you have to find the ones that your loved one will respond to. Amazon is a source for ma…1 -
Re: I need a hug please
@wose said: All docs are in order, I’m probably not seeing or accepting his obvious progression. Sometimes kind people like you remind me. I’m having a hard time finding a g psych guy cause he only w…1 -
New to group - in MCI stage of AD
Good morning! I’m recently diagnosed with MCI of AD. Prior to my diagnosis, my husband didn’t notice anything, but I knew something was wrong. I mentioned my memory difficulties to my internist and s…3 -
Re: New to this. DH with MCI due to AD
You have received lots of good advice above. Just adding … Vacation. I am not saying not to go. We have. Just be aware that DH may not do as well in unfamiliar surroundings. DH here got lost returnin…1 -
Re: In hospital and medicine
I’ve been thinking of you Eloise and hoping you can find a little comfort and peace. After my first hubby died, it took a very long time for me to come to terms with it. I will never stop grieving, b…2
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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