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Re: If and how to tell others about the dementia
My DH (57) with EOAD doesn’t like for anyone to know. There are still family members who we haven’t shared with even though he’s now in late stage 4. I try to respect his wishes, but when we go out t…3 -
Re: Hubby Moving to MC Wednesday
@Katcat : The day I moved my wife of 46 years into MC was worse for me than the day she died. So many emotions. That said, I know it was the right thing to do for both of us. It will be tough but you…3 -
Re: Tips for getting LO to listen to my advice
I agree that locking the shed or garage with dangerous tools would be a good idea. I can imagine that probably would not go over well with him. Maybe try to think of some kind of excuse in advance. D…3 -
Re: Being accused of any and everything
No matter what their false believe is, it’s best not to argue. Instead, play along with their delusion. When she accuses you of lying, do not try to defend yourself. Instead, say something like, “I’m…1 -
Re: Friend wants to learn about ALZ
the book “The 36 Hour Day” is a great place to start. Search online for dementia caregiving videos by Tam Cummings and Teepa Snow. Show him the chart for the 7 stages of dementia that includes behavi…2 -
Re: Friend wants to learn about ALZ
https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/255943#Comment_255943 The link about has an option to download/print as a PDF file.1 -
Re: Being accused of any and everything
The bigger question here is why you have been charged with the care of a grandmother who wasn't active in your life growing up? Normally a spouse or adult child is primary caregiver in this sort…3 -
Re: Just need to talk to my friends (211)
Eagle, I'm sorry for your MIL troubles. A man in my Alz support group had the same problem. His wife couldn't speak, so her out of town relatives thought he was forbidding her to speak with…2 -
Re: Just need to talk to my friends (211)
I'm back Molly needed to go out side. Eagle. I'm glad your DHs cough is better, I bet your both real glad. Did the doctor, have any idea why his neck has issues? Sometimes mine hurts becaus…1 -
Re: Just Sad
https://alzconnected.org/discussion/74261/just-sad I think it very normal to feel very sad at times. Our job as caretaker is not an easy one. As the saying goes..."it is ok not to be ok." W…3
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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