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Re: Caring for an abusive parent
I would see an attorney to vet the POA document to explain your options in terms of next steps. You may be obligated if you live in state with filial responsibility laws. In your shoes, I would consi…1 -
Re: Memory care Monday
The move was delayed until this morning (paperwork btw the facility, Medicaid, and hospice). But he’s moved in and was napping when I left. He was very calm through it all. I’m allowed to visit whene…14 -
Re: Caring for an abusive parent
Because as a l child of hers, you actually MAY have a legal obligation to see to her welfare. I believe it varies from state to state. If you are correct + you have no legal obligation to her, then I…2 -
Re: Caring for an abusive parent
I have not been posting lately, but signed in to respond to you. Yes, your mother needs support. It is not required from YOU. Firstly, I would see an attorney + explain that you would like to end you…6 -
Re: Need to talk to someone
@MABKS Hi and welcome. I am sorry for your need to be here but pleased you found this place. M1 gave you excellent advice about the POAs needed in this situation. I would loop your daughter in; this …1 -
Re: Just need to talk to my friends (199)
Good Morning.. 60s predicted today with frost Thursday. Wind is gusty @ 20mph today. More fencing and house cleaning today. Cotton picking has begun. Made a pot of pinto beans yesterday with a skille…1 -
Re: Need to talk to someone
Ditto what others have posted. In addition read the book “The 36 Hour Day” which was recommended by a nurse and really helped me after my husband’s diagnosis. This comment by someone on this site hel…2 -
Re: Agitation and paranoia
Hi Ms. K, Please contact his physician and ask for meds for him. There are lots of meds that will tamp down these problems. My DH is on Seraquel and it is magical how calm he has gotten.5 -
Re: Agitation and paranoia
If you haven't already, please rule out a medical issue that may be causing the problem before starting any new medication - UTI, etc.1 -
Re: Agitation and paranoia
Welcome to the forum and agree with the above. An atypical antipsychotic like Seroquel or risperdal should help. Some folks need hospitalization to get stabilized on meds, don't hesitate to take him …1
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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