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  • Re: Kisssing in MC

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  • Inevitable Falling

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  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends(201)

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  • A toaster oven in AL

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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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