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  • Re: Anyone With Resentment?

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  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (204)

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  • Re: Depakote or Haldol for agitation and combativeness?

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  • Re: Anyone With Resentment?

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  • Re: Home care hopefully will help ?

    I'm struggling with the same issue. I need a break and DW just doesn't want anyone else in the house. I hope you got the help you need!
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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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