Have any questions about how to use the community? Check out the Help Discussion.
Popular Posts
-
Re: DH in nursing facility
I know how you feel. I had to place my husband in MC last December due to my cancer diagnosis. It’s the hardest thing I have ever done. I felt like I failed him. With the help and support of my famil…2 -
Re: DH in nursing facility
Dear Maggie M, My husband has been in MC for a little over a year. He was placed under very similar circumstances as your husband. He was in the hospital and very weak. The doctor called and told me …4 -
Re: DH in nursing facility
You have had to do what I dread most of all. It’s so sad just to think that’s what I might have to do, I really feel like I would crumble too. We have been married 54 years he is the love of my life,…4 -
Over Stimulation
My DH son and girlfriend recently visited with their 2 year old grandson and he was SO loud and rambunctious. The next morning my DH didn't feel well, said he was cold (no fever) was stumbling and ta…2 -
Re: Over Stimulation
hi. I have been on this connection thing only a few other times. This is the first I have commented. I am here because the last few days have been terrible and made us both cry. Kind of like what hap…7 -
APHASIA the sadness of not being able to communicate
My DH is stage 5 or 6 dementia with very advanced APHASIA. Within himself and between us we are very happy but it’s so sad we often only communicate by touch, smiles and often single words. He was al…6 -
Re: Need advice on companion care
So far I haven’t had any luck with a sitter. The advice given by the others is excellent. I think the important thing is that the sitter is aware that the client has dementia and that they know at le…1 -
Re: Financial crisis in the making
Just wanted to add that a person designated as a DPOA can refuse the job, so don’t count on this person to be “obligated” to do anything. If they’ve already signed the DPOA document, they may need to…2 -
Re: Financial crisis in the making
Phoenix is right. The DPOA that was designated may want to have to part of what is bound to be a very messy situation.1 -
Re: New to group any advice
I, too, am not sure what I’m doing. I know I desperately need someone to talk to. My dh was recently diagnosed with ad. He’s in absolute denial and insists his memory problems are age related. He’s t…2
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
Read more