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  • Re: Agitation

    My husband's PCP has prescribed two different antipsychotics…lorazepam and resperidone…he couldn't tolerate either one and went totally bonkers while taking them. Haven't tried the gum…
  • Agitation

    My DH has recently had episodes of being delusional and gets agitated because he’s so confused. Does anyone know if there are medications that are good for occasional use in this situation. How about…
  • Re: Father says hurtful things and still expects me to help

    The key seems to be holding onto yourself, grounding yourself, and then meeting your dad where he is. At my mom’s memory care they use validation technique. You start by grounding yourself in what YO…
  • Re: Father says hurtful things and still expects me to help

    sDianel has given great advice. You’re not alone in dealing with this. Mom is very critical of everything I do. Everything is blamed on me. I work my but off for her. My brother does nothing and can …
  • Re: Father says hurtful things and still expects me to help

    remember it’s the disease talking and not your Dad. It helped me to think of my husband as my patient and me his nurse. It took some of the emotion out of it. Your relationship with your LO changes w…
  • Re: Terrified!

    My Dh is stage 7 and is on Hospices. I am so grateful to have Hospices as well as VA to help with DH needs. I too struggle with the longevity of this disease. I try to stay in the moment. If I dwell …
  • Re: Thankful

    I’m also thankful for this forum. I don’t know what I would have done if I hadn’t found it. I felt like I was drowning and alone. I’m thankful for every person here. Thanksgiving Blessings to all. 💜
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    I was just popping on to wish everyone a peaceful, restful holiday. I am so grateful for this forum. This forum has gotten me through. I am sad about many things it’s so good to remember the positive…
  • Re: Thankful

    thank you for saying this. My mom passed in March after I was her primary caregiver here at home with my husband. I think I’m processing a lot this Thanksgiving, thinking about what it was like last …
  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (212)

    Seafood paella sounds delicious! Bon appetite! I'm upset and a bit angry! Someone I've known for about 20 years called me but left no message. When I called her back, it turns out that she …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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