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Re: Anyone With Resentment?
Long marriage here, but not soulmates. DH is usually easy to get along with in his VD but when he refuses to take his meds, it sends me over the edge. These comments and postings are good reminders t…2 -
Re: Do I know the answer?
DW remembers things that never happened, and doesn't remember things that did. Happens all the time, on everything from our 61 year history together, to existing and non-existing grandchildren.2 -
Re: Anyone With Resentment?
I TOTALLY get it! My husband and I did not have a good marriage, and now I am wiping his bottom as he gets annoyed with me. I am resentful, angry, exhausted, and sad. But … I'm trying to figure out h…5 -
Been a long 6 years
My BH, age 65 now, is very close to the end of his journey. If someone has a “to do” list I would love feedback.13 -
Re: Advice request
Hi @JoseyWales I'm sorry I'm so late - I always kind of forget that this forum is here. I fully support your decision not to have a funeral - for all of the reasons you stated. Here's what we did whe…3 -
Re: I moved DW to memory care (part 2)
This is one of the issues that pushed me over the edge with regards to placing my DW in MC. 2 years ago I had an acute medical issue. I passed out at the dinner table. My DW just sat there until I ca…7 -
Re: I moved DW to memory care (part 2)
I cannot begin to describe how similar our stories are! I have been thinking a lot lately that he might be happier in MC because he gets so bored here with only me, but I need to first try some home …1 -
Re: The Cavalry Is Not Coming: 9 Year Edition
Thanks Bill for your wonderful article. It’s the first time I have seen it. This really hit home with me. It’s so inspirational. I think I’ve spent a lot of time feeling sorry for myself. My DH was d…5 -
Re: The Cavalry Is Not Coming: 9 Year Edition
I just wanted to thank everyone for posting your personal stories. I’m not good at posting my thoughts. I have really learned a lot from all your experiences. This forum is a lot easier for me to use…9 -
Re: I moved DW to memory care (part 2)
My DW is also very aware, which is why I had to use the "resort" ruse. For a couple of years now I've been on the verge of tears, but they never quite flowed. I thought once I placed DW, th…4
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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