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    The sad thing is…I could handle it if he’d let me!
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  • Re: Start of incontinence

    I’m so sorry, Annie. You are not failing!! Your DH and my DW seem to be in the same urinary incontinence schedule. Just over a week of consistent nightly issues. I’ve washed the sheets everyday day f…
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  • Re: Treating NPH

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  • Re: Treating NPH

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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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