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  • Re: The Caregiver’s Brain

    Arrowhead It has been nine years for me too. I feel the same way you do. I would like to have a close relationship again but I can't now. Our marriage wasn't good for a long time before this disease …
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    My wife was well in Stage 6 of Alzheimer's when I placed her in MC, and would have had a year or two to live if Alzheimer's had been her only illness. She passed away suddenly, because she didn't die…
  • Re: I'm Hitting My Limit

    CindyBum, I feel the same. I think all of us do, or have, or will. There is no way to do this 'right' if that means fixing what's wrong with our loved ones. My sweet DH swears at me and complains in …
  • Re: The Caregiver’s Brain

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  • Re: Brain Exercising

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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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