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Driving while impaired
There are two ladies in my support group who, being unwilling to confront the issue, still let their husbands drive. At the last meeting, they both admitted that they were starting to look into memor…5 -
Re: We were turned down for memory care for my DH at the CRRC where we live
So many facilities at all levels are nothing but big corporate businesses that only have one goal in mind and its not the care of its residents. The only advice I have is that if they say they can't …7 -
Re: Feeling guilty about hospice and husband passing away
SBL83, I came here tonight because my husband passed 2 days ago in memory care. He was diagnosed in 2021. I had planned on keeping him home as long as I could but I was diagnosed with rare aggressive…6 -
Re: Feeling guilty about hospice and husband passing away
@SBL83 I'm sorry for your loss. Please don't beat yourself up for decisions you've made, especially regarding hospice. If your hospice team was anything like the hospice team I had for my sister Pegg…5 -
Re: Feeling guilty about hospice and husband passing away
I am so sorry for your loss. Guilt often goes hand-in-hand with grief. We try to second guess ourselves over every decision we made, even though those decisions were made with only the best of intent…5 -
I just don’t know?!?!
Enjoying dinner with former work friends tonight! Oh my such a wonderful, full of belly laughs time. Paying bill, ready to go and friend says isn’t that your husband coming over? Well I was dumbfound…7 -
Just need an emotional release
The evenings are bad for me. I miss my mom. I miss sitting here with her, enjoying TV on the couch, and being close to her. I miss being her daughter. I know, I know. I still am at some level, but ev…6 -
Re: Feeling guilty about hospice and husband passing away
@SBL83 : I am sorry for your loss. I think you did everything right for your DH. This article has a summary of 3 studies that showed patients on hospice care live longer and better than patients trea…8 -
Re: Feeling guilty about hospice and husband passing away
SBL83, Prior to her passing a few months ago, my DW was dealing with EOAD, advanced stage cervical cancer, and type 1 diabetes. She was in MC for the last 8 months of her journey. I brought in hospic…5 -
Re: Feeling guilty about hospice and husband passing away
SBL83, I am so sorry for your loss. If the medications he was taking were no longer helping then there was no reason to take them. Ativan kept him calm and the morphine helped with any pain he was ex…6
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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