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  • Re: Need advice/support on next steps

    I went back to the facility that had been my first choice today and took DH for an assessment and tour. They were very helpful, welcoming and accommodating. They have no qualms about his care.
  • Re: new skills

    For whatever reason, DW will not remove clothing when asked and will resist when I try to help her remove it. This applies mostly to pants and underwear. Shirts seem to be easier. However she is stil…
  • Re: new skills

    I've done the snatching up of clothes as soon as they hit the floor. Nice trick that she doesn't seem to notice. But sometimes it is the getting the clothes off to start the process. I'…
  • Re: Psychiatric Drugs for Alzheimer's patients

    @Merla said: My parent is in her mid 70s and is not happy with being at memory care which she arrived at 6 months ago. She just isn't adjusting well, won't engage in activities, stays in he…
  • Re: DW realized her memory loss

    people with dementia have anosognosia which means they are unable to understand they have dementia. Even if they know sometimes that they are struggling with cognitive issues. She won’t remember the …
  • Arguing

    This was on my facebook and I thought it was so relevant for us dealing with dementia I thought I would share. Relevant for both the pwd and difficult family. Helen Mirren once said: Before you argue…
  • Re: I keep trying to take control

    I'm always trying to walk the line between controlling, and letting go of things that don't matter. If it's safety or something that could lead to damage and expensive repairs, I'…
  • Re: I keep trying to take control

    I don’t make any calls in front of my husband pertaining to anything that needs to be done financially, medically, car and home repairs. I have taken control of everything and I have done it slowly a…
  • Re: I am forgetting, too

    Wonderful to hear others are experiencing some of the same issues trying to keep things straight and organized everyday. I have post neuro covid issues which make it harder but the stress and constan…
  • Re: I am forgetting, too

    As I sit here typing I probably have 5 different lists going and I still forget things. It’s my mom with dementia so I can’t help that nagging feeling is this the first signs? Am I getting dementia? …

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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