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Re: Showboating?
I need an answer to that one. To me it seems like I’m being bamboozled all day. I’m running myself into the ground and he’s safe, warm, well fed and nasty mean all day long. I still think he’s connin…5 -
Re: Follow up on Blount Alzheimer’s Center Cuts.
Dear SCiane. With all due respect, scientists were fired. I am a reference librarian and I consulted a,lot of sources given the news silos we live in. Good luck.6 -
Re: From Spouse to Nurse
I thought I had made the switch to caregiver and then advocate many times but then I would want to have a meaningful conversation, so I had to make the switch again. This time I think it is finally p…5 -
Re: Showboating?
I think that I showtime in my own way by pretending I am doing better than I really am at handling all this when I am around other people.10 -
Slow fade
Just venting some sadness to those who understand...no dramatic changes with my mom (today), but the slow fade continues. I sat with her at dinner in MC today. Had to put the spoon in her hand to get…5 -
Re: I did what I said I wouldn’t
You definitely deserve that gold star! Welcome to the blue-glove club! It gets easier, and even though I think we all thought we would never do that, it just becomes part of loving caregiving. In so …6 -
Re: Follow up on Blount Alzheimer’s Center Cuts.
I was also greatly saddened with news reports that the Roy Blunt Center for Alzheimer’s and Related Dementias (referred to by the acronym CARD) was recently ordered to reduce 10% of their workforce. …8 -
Re: Financial crisis in the making part 2
It’s time for you to take control, completely. Take the steps to complete this task. After you have the legal authority, take action and take control of everything he might try and get his hands on. …6 -
Re: How do you respond to family inquiries?
My DW also stage 5, has always enjoyed a life full of family and friends. It has been exhausting trying to have the same conversation with so many about how she/we are doing. I started a weekly group…8 -
I did what I said I wouldn’t
After 60 years of marriage and in year 15 of caregiving I always have said I would never wipe my DH’s royal hiney. That never day came with you know what on the bathroom floors, toilet seat, etc. and…13
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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