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  • Re: Newbie here.....how to cope with my dad

    Welcome to the forum. You can't reason with someone with dementia, and you will be less frustrated if you quit trying to do so. what you are describing are pretty common delusions, and medications ma…
  • Re: Update - Sudden Decline In Ability To Walk

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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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