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  • Re: The last mile

    Prayers for you, your MiL and your family for a safe journey home and comfort, strength and peace in the days ahead.
  • Re: Adult Children

    @Biggles Speaking with my adult child hat on. I can't say with certainty why your son seems to be drifting away. It's interesting your mind went to ashamed. Ashamed never really came to mind for me. …
  • Re: Adult Children

    Biggles, I guess you are going to do some crying and feeling bad, we all do. But with regard to your son, I think getting on with it is your best choice. When I was in his shoes (stressful job, worki…
  • Re: Adult Children

    I also have adult children, 44, 42, 40 and 34. All married and with kids - oldest two grands are 10 and the youngest just a few months old. Most live near but one lives out of state. All are grieving…
  • Re: A very little holiday

    It sounds lovely. Keep your expectations low and if you think he may be prone to wandering in a strange surrounding purchase an inexpensive door jam alarm for the bedroom door so you can get a good n…
  • Re: Seeking Advise - I am 25

    Welcome. Sorry you have to be here. Finish grad school. That’s what I would want my child to do in this situation. Ask yourself if that is what your mom would want. Some people with dementia can get …
  • Re: Seeking Advise - I am 25

    please take care that your brother and yourself get started in life- education, careers, relationships. That’s what your mom would want if her brain worked. In addition- an assisted living facility g…
  • Re: Seeking Advise - I am 25

    You have received some very wise input. As a mother I would want my adult children to continue their education and professional pursuits. You are NOT abandoning her. Placement in this situation is no…
  • Re: Visiting a stage 7 patient

    Your user name says it all. She was stolen from you and you go back again and again to be able to touch her, talk to her and feel some kind of presence that might still be there, buried under immeasu…
  • Dementia or Depression

    One of the things I have noticed with my aging mother is that she has symptoms that are similar to depression. We got her on an antidepressant and some of the depression symptoms have gone away thank…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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