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Re: A Smack of Reality
PS: denial is common with us caregivers. It’s a defense mechanism. The reality is too painful. Good that you are looking inward. It really helps.4 -
Re: Report to DMV
Thankfully, I have not had to do it, though I came close to it. I was assured it is 100% anonymous. Here in my state, the DMV will issue notice that my LO needs to show up to do a driving test for re…1 -
Re: Visual issues related to Alz
My husband’s neurologist said he had difficulty seeing neutral colors. An example: he was hesitate to step into a white bathtub or shower. I bought bright red or orange bath mats and also red plates …2 -
Hearing, Yes or No?
It is too late for my dear wife as she left us a few weeks ago. As I often sit and think back over our path down the difficult road of AD, things pop into my head that I wish I had known or at least …4 -
Re: Visual issues related to Alz
Research suggests that specific areas of the brain responsible for visual processing may be affected in individuals with dementia. Disruptions in these areas could lead to visual misinterpretations—r…1 -
Re: Nighttime toilet issues
So sorry you find yourself in this difficult situation. I’m sorry, I have no suggestions. Keep in mind there can be a waiting list at some facilities. Even if you can overcome this hurdle the time wi…1 -
Re: New to this whole thing
I did something that has also helped my peace of mind. I bought a watch with a fall detector that notifies my daughter should I become unconscious. It occurred to me at age 74 that I am not as sure f…4 -
Re: Report to DMV
Here is my experience with the DMV. I addressed my concern about DH driving to his Dr who sent a letter to the DMV. The DMV was a joke! The DMV let him keep taking the written test until he passed it…2 -
Re: Home health care
I started with companion care when it reached the point DW could not be left home alone for any length of time. I need an opportunity to leave the house without feeling like I was constantly burdenin…5 -
Re: Guilt and Grief
I am so sorry for your loss. I believe that most of us as caregivers have perceived guilt that we didn't do enough. It never seemed to be enough. I have guilt that I had to place my husband in m…4
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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