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  • Re: Mom was newly diagnosed

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  • Re: I'm feeling a little disturbed

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  • Re: Sundowning

    My stepmother was susceptible to hallucinations and delusions, often late in the day or the middle of the night. It was very scary. When I was staying in their home (in the years when I was trying to…
  • Re: Sundowning

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  • Re: Update: Mood swings and anger issues

    My sister is 71yrs not officially dx yet. Unable answer certain questions...like the presidents name. Was found unconscious in her car a few months. She is denial of this. She's paranoid very an…
  • Re: It's been four months since DW died

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  • Re: Christmas tree

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  • Re: Not Sure Where to Turn

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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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