Have any questions about how to use the community? Check out the Help Discussion.

Popular Posts

  • Re: UTI

    @LJCHR said: The blood pressure goes up when you have an infection (i.e. UTI). I check my DH blood pressure each day and that's an indication to test him. My mom, who does not have dementia, has…
  • Re: UTI

    We were told by a pcp to give our loved one cranberry juice to help prevent a UTI. It does help the frequency.
  • Re: Not Sure Where to Turn

    Most communities will have a local commission on aging. They will be able to tell you about services available in your community. I believe as a general rule a full 8 hours of care will probably need…
  • Re: Not Sure Where to Turn

    Where we live, in home care is out of pocket unless you are a veteran who is rated for a disability and qualities for assistance. I would contact an attorney who specializes in SSDI and ask if your w…
  • Re: Trouble lifting

    is your Mom under hospice care? They provide some equipment like hospital beds and incontinence supplies. Not sure if they provide lifts. Hospice provides so much help. I would call them.
  • Re: Sundowning

    When the person with dementia (pwd) believes something, it's rarely helpful to try to orient them to reality. So if she's sitting next to your dad wondering when dad will come home, it can …
  • Re: Not Sure Where to Turn

    I’ve mentioned this before in other posts, we are getting assistance through our county for in-home care. Check to see if you have something like that in your area. Where I live it’s called the Alter…
  • Re: Not Sure Where to Turn

    So sorry you have to join us here but this is the right place to be for help. Your difficulty in getting a doctor to spend time to fully assess your wife is such a reminder of what we experienced wit…
  • Re: Sundowning

    Welcome. Sorry for the reason you are here. Sorry about your Mom. Sundowning is common and so are hallucinations & delusions. Learn all you can about dementia. Start with the book “The 36 Hour Da…
  • Re: Not Sure Where to Turn

    I found a neurologist whose specialty was memory care. She was a godsend. Her office also provide a social worker from Alzheimer’s Association to meet with the family during my husband’s appointments.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
Read more