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Re: Take a cruise?
My dh was a little earlier than that, firmly in Stage 5, when we did our last cruise. It had been planned for April 2020 and rescheduled for 2022. He was not able to dine in the main dining rooms—he …5 -
Re: Take a cruise?
When was the last time you traveled with DH and what was it like? For us, each trip became increasingly difficult and it became obvious that there would be a last trip in our future. Our last (ever) …2 -
Re: New here
welcome. I would start the process as harshbuzz recommend and get on a waiting list if they have one. Meanwhile check with your Agency on Aging and your county for senior day care to give you a break.1 -
Re: Weighted blanket
also ask his doctor about medication to help him sleep. Many who post here say their LO is on Seroquel which helps. Sleep disruptions are common in dementia.1 -
Re: DH fixated on being able to drive.
The Dr.said he should not drive. I don't think I would let him take the driving test. He could be having a good day. Also your ins. Will not probably cover him if he was in an accident no matter…4 -
Re: Feeling sad and drained.
https://alzconnected.org/discussion/74640/feeling-sad-and-drained I am not younger but feel your pain. My sister is out of state and I live with mom. She has mild dementia is not driving and I have h…2 -
Re: Feeling sad and drained.
So very sorry for the heartbreak you are experiencing. I would recommend connecting in person with people who can be your support; either an AD support group, a church, or even people who like to do …2 -
Re: Feeling sad and drained.
I am glad you came here to share. I’m really sorry you are experiencing this and finding yourself in the caregiver seat most days. It’s a lonely place to be, but also an important one. You can provid…3 -
Re: End Stage
@hiker88 I am so sorry. It is hard to care so much but not have a say in care decisions. I'm kind of surprised the facility hasn't discussed bringing in hospice with your sister. Most MCFs …2 -
Re: End Stage
So sorry. These are hard times for sure. It’s hard to tell from the post whether she has the support of hospice. If not, you may be interested in these FAQs about hospice care: https://www.nia.nih.go…1
Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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