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  • I Took Credit

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  • Re: Update

    the thought of what if something happens to me is a concern I have too. A couple of days ago I asked my wife if something happen to me if she could call our son. She has a cell phone that sits on the…
  • Re: I need to take a breather

    @times2 I did. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to say to anyone, ever. I told her that if she doesn't want to eat anymore, it's okay, and that I support her 100% in whatever she decide…
  • Re: Overwhelmed

    Dear tlecroy, Your story is overwhelming, and I am so sorry and sad for you and your husband. The schedule and burdens that you are carrying are unsustainable and you must be exhausted. To have all t…
  • cat burglar

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  • Re: Man of few words, but when he speaks its a doozy

    SSHarkey - I couldn't help but laugh, which made him laugh, and our aide thought the whole thing was hilarious. The first time he obviously did not know who I was, it broke my heart in little pieces.…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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