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We are in Illinois if that impacts anything. My mother was diagnosed about 6 months ago. There is so much information out there. Is there any guide that walks me through what I need to do, in what order? Or does anyone have any tips and tricks. We are in the process of selling her property and purchasing another smaller…
Father is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and is prone to shopping sprees, scams, and donating money, but doesn’t pay his taxes, bills, and maxes out credit cards. He’s in debt $500k, but denies any problem with his actions or Alzheimer’s diagnosis from his neurologist. Would like first hand experience with establishing a…
Hi all, I'm new here. I have a much older sister in her mid-70s (one who I hardly knew growing up) who lives in another county, about an hour away—still in her own apartment. The only other family member is our brother, closer in age to her, who lives a bit closer to her, but is rarely involved. As I agreed years ago to be…
Please excuse if this is not appropriate to ask. I've been interviewing elder law attorneys for Medicaid planning for my early-stage spouse and am wondering if anyone has any specific recommendations for Northern NJ, Bergen County in particular.
Hi everyone! I hope you and all of our loved ones are doing well. I (27 F) am one of three care givers for my mama (62 F). I have just recently felt as if I have a handle on her Alzheimer's, but am wondering if I'm missing anything that I can set up for her/us to support us some more as she continues to progress. So far I…
**update: I ended up paying. Director refused to put in writing that they will honor the overpay in credits. Said it would make him look "disingenuous". That he has to honor the credits or it would be Medicaid fraud. It was taking too much of a toll on my mental health to have this battle as my attorney's quit responding…
Hi All, I’m 59 and my DH is 63. He has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s/Dementia. He is moderate to severe. I knew something was wrong and tried to get him to seek help earlier, but he refused. He isn’t accepting the diagnosis, he just says he’s going to die. We have been married for 31 years and have had a wonderful…
I have PoA (financial and medical) for my LO with dementia. Other family members and I have a difference of opinion on where my LO should live. I’m just trying to honor my LO’s wishes as long as it’s feasible. I received communications from these family members that make me think they are gearing up to challenge my…
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Hi everyone! So today is the day that I finally focused on getting POA over my mom, and thank god I did. Poor thing could barely do her signature she kept getting so anxious :( But regardless, yay we got it done! Now who do I need to send it to?? Do I just give it to all of her doctors, her bank, her landlord?? Should I be…
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