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    Exactly. Some of us are just beginning this journey and if the Republican House has a budget bill cutting most of Medicaid, how do we pay for MC, etc? I'm worried about losing everything I'…
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  • Re: The dementia routine

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  • Thank Your Past Self

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  • Re: From Spouse to Nurse

    Cindy, I don't know if anyone can tell you exactly how to make this switch. For me, I went from wife to nurse to parent and advocate many times a day when he was at home. Now that he is in MC, I…
  • Re: Learning to be patient.

    After these 6 years, I think it's more than learning to be patient. It's learning to take anything without showing our reaction to it..no matter how hurtful, painful or just plain weird. Th…
  • The dementia routine

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  • From Spouse to Nurse

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  • Re: Federal Alzheimer's Research Defunded

    Today, the Alzheimer's Association (the organization sponsoring these AD forums) issued a statement titled "Moving Our Mission Forward". Here is the first sentence "Alzheimer’s is…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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