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  • Re: Just need to talk to my friends (210)

    Hello Porch Friends. Eagle. I just read your post, I'm so sorry about your DHs neck. Hopefully he's not in much pain. JeriLynn. Your prison breakout look so guilty, with his ears held back …
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  • In hospital and medicine

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  • Re: pre loss grief

    I felt that my husband’s Alzheimer’s changed the entire way I lived my life. While he was alive, I felt cutoff from the world as I had known it. It was horrifying. At the same time I was comforted by…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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