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  • Re: We Don't Talk Anymore

    I wish my DH could eloquently tell a story now. I know that it must be tedious to hear the same ones over and over, but I would feel happy to hear some of them now. My DH seems to have forgotten even…
  • Re: We Don't Talk Anymore

    I came to this site tonight because I have spent the last hour listening to the same college stories over and over - trying to act interested. And answering the same questions over and over again. He…
  • Re: Forgetting her brother died

    I’ll never again tell my DH that deceased family members are deceased. In his world, they’re alive. I did it once with his mom and he cried his eyes out. Never again. This is where I use fiblets. Oh,…
  • A New Chuckle

    I guess I need to post these to desperately try to keep my sense of humor. I thought I may have escaped the hyper-sexuality phase, and maybe I still have since this has only happened once. We shall s…
  • Re: The Long Quiet

    yes, my wife too was very active and vibrant. She had her own real estate company and was a connoisseur party and wedding planner. Seems like they all go through very similar stages but at different …
  • Feeling Vulnerable and Grieving

    I am a newbie here, been "lurking" at posts of interest and pleased with what I've been seeing as a supportive group of caring individuals experiencing life as caregiver for LO's.…
  • DH in hospital

    Not sure what happened Friday night, but, something went horribly wrong and I had to call 911 for my DH. I knew immediately that vit wasn't normal morning alz confusion. It was more like deliriu…
  • 30 day respite

    I just placed my DH/alz in memory care for a 30 day respite. It was a lot of prep work but it went ok. The staff took him to the dining room and I set up his room. I told him the doctors and nurses w…
  • The Long Quiet

    Dear Friends, I am quickly approaching ten years as a caregiver for my dear wife with late Stage 6 dementia. Alzheimer’s and dementia have long been known as The Long Goodbye because of the painfully…
  • Re: Another hit to my heart

    My DH and I have been together since I was 17 and he 19 - 56 years. 4 kids and 12 grandkids later, we have always been the most important person in one another's lives, truly the love of our liv…

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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