DH in hospital



Not sure what happened Friday night, but, something went horribly wrong and I had to call 911 for my DH. I knew immediately that vit wasn't normal morning alz confusion. It was more like delirium. They admitted him and so far all tests have come back normal but he has become even more delirious and now aggressive and violent and they've had to restrain and sedate him. It's taken me 2 days to try to explain to the Dr's that yes, he can hold his leg up for 5 seconds and hold his arms up for 10. This isn't a mobility issue. That man you see that cannot tell you waht a pair of sunglasses is or repeat a single word back to you and thinks he is on air force one in not the same man that went to bed Friday night. Hes never been violent in his life and suddenly he went full rocky on them. The CT scan showed no sign of stroke. They're going to try an mri when they can calm him down. Why don't Dr's listen to you when you're trying to tell them something?? For a day and a half I kept telling them it isnt physical. The man that you see now is in no way the same man that went to bed Friday night. A 180 turn even for alz isnt normal overnight. Sorry. Just frustrated right now.
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I’m so sorry Sweetheart! You must be frustrated and afraid. I’m kind of new to all this but from reading I understand that can happen. I’m so mad at them for not listening to you! I send you love and hugs and vent away!
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Did they test for a urinary tract infection? UTIs are notable for causing sudden massive changes in behaviors.
Iris
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My husband experienced the SAME thing he came to the hospital because he could barely walk and then got agitated and turned into a violent rage got admitted and they are adjusting his meds
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I'm glad you came to voice you frustration. That is very odd. It is maddening when physicians wont listen to caregivers. The best advise I can give you is to keep your calm #1,#2 keep stating this is different behavior for your DH and #3 try to comfort him as he is scared also.
Have you contacted his PCP or neurologist? They would know what his behavior usually is as compared to the behavior your now seeing.
Let us know what happens.
eagle
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I hope they find what’s wrong. 🙏 Found this: Delirium in people with dementia can be triggered by a range of factors, including:
- Infections: Urinary tract infections (UTIs) or pneumonia are common culprits.
- Dehydration or malnutrition: Lack of fluids or proper nutrients can affect brain function.
- Medication issues: New medications, side effects, or interactions can cause delirium.
- Pain: Uncontrolled pain is a frequent cause.
- Metabolic changes: Imbalances in blood sugar or other bodily functions can trigger delirium.
- Other conditions: Stroke, hypoxia (lack of oxygen), or even constipation can lead to delirium.
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Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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