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My mother is 78 with ES and lives alone. Until recently, she has managed around the house- she's lived there 50 yrs and only recently been alone (my dad passed 2023, my younger live-in brother passed in 2025). While I am not working (online college fulltime, however), I have become my mom's assistant, scheduler, IT tech,…
Hello everyone!! I am currently in the process of finding assisted living care for my mother who has Alzheimer’s Disease (most likely full on dementia at this point). She is starting to have bathroom issues, and I am reaching my limit. It is now a risk to her physical health and my mental health from my burn out. I mean…
Hello. New to the discussion board. I have been reading lots of post and so happy to have found a tribe. My mom lives with me and my husband. She was diagnosed with alz and lbd a year ago. It's heartbreaking, frustrating, difficult, and exhausting. I'm pretty much on my own caring for her as my brother passed away several…
I know people sometimes mean well when they give unsolicited advice. A long time friend has been messaging me videos of cases of elder abuse in nursing homes and telling be how wrong I am to have my mom in a MC AL facility. She says my mom is unhappy (she hasn’t seen my mom in years) and that I’m doing her a disservice. I…
We moved my mom out of her house and into AL near me back in April. She was not emotionally ready to let the house go, so we have not tried to sell it yet. She occasionally talks about moving back there someday, but of course that is never going to happen. However, I think it makes it easier to accept her current…
My sister with Alzheimer's has been in assisted living now for 3 months. It was rough going getting her in. For weeks she wanted to return to her apartment where she lived alone. She now seems happy and settled and is willing to give up her apartment. We plan to move her things out next month. My question, should I let her…
Hello! I have been on here for about a month or so now and have found everyone so very helpful. I have some thoughts I’d like to share and hopefully someone can give some insight into whether or not it would help my situation. So my dad has VD, or so we have been told. He is in a NH that he hates and he “WANTS TO GO HOME”.…
I'm brand new here and could really use some support from people who have been through something similar. I'm an only child, and my 73-year-old dad has several serious medical conditions, including end-stage renal failure and a previous stroke that left him with speech aphasia. My mom died five years ago, so I'm the only…
My mother is 77 years old, living independently, and diagnosed with dementia/mild cognitive impairment, along with anxiety and depression. My father passed 3 years ago, after they were married 50 years. This was followed by the passing of my brother (my mom's youngest son) at 32 just last August. She has lived in the same…
I had a care plan meeting at Mom's ALF 2 weeks ago. I left the meeting feeling really good because the staff there really seemed to understand everything that was going on with my mom, have observed the same things I have, and seemed to have a good plan of attack for helping her with some things like her anxiety and her…
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