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Dad confused in his apartment - looking for stairs that don't exist

kjcampbell
kjcampbell Member Posts: 1 Member

I'm looking for suggestions / tips about how to address my dad's search for stairs to go to his other apartment. He is 92, in a wheelchair - probably Stage 5 Alzheimers. He lives in a Memory Care facility in a studio apartment. He keeps looking for the stairs from the basement or to the 2nd floor to get to his "other" apartment or bedroom. I know logic & correcting him won't work, but there's nowhere I can take him up any stairs - everything is on a single level. If I can't redirect his attention elsewhere, how can I answer him?

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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