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Share your Story with the Alzheimer’s Association
The Alzheimer's Association is dedicated to ensuring that everyone facing Alzheimer's or another dementia is able to access a timely diagnosis, available treatment options and quality care throughout their journey. To better understand the barriers people currently face, we are looking for people to share their experience…
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Moved: ALZConnected Q&A Thread
This discussion has been moved.
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seroquel usage for 93 year old with dementia for the past 11 years.
i'm at the end of my rope as far as care-giving goes. my mother was diagnosed in 2014 with AD/dementia. she advanced quickly and has been in late stages for the past 9 years (requires complete care 24/7). her delusions and bad behavior have become difficult to manage. she's started throwing dishes and glasses of food/drink…
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"Incident" in MC, what to do?
I was told there was an incident involving my mother in memory care. Nobody at her facility contacted me about it. I heard it from one of her friends who called me to inquire about it, and she said she was told from my sister who has POA. I called the Director of Nursing. In her words she said "Yes, there was an incident…
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"I'm leaving to go home"
I am new to this forum. In September 2024, We took in my MIL who has Alzheimer's, stage 5. All in all things are going well. She always is trying to go pack up her belongings and get ready to go "Home". We do tell her that she lives with us now, she's safe and redirect her to something else, walk, go out for a drive etc.…
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Toddler comparison
This is a rant. I’ve been caring for my DH who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s nearly 3 years ago which was at least 2 years after I had been begging for a diagnosis. When someone compares caring for a spouse with Alzheimer’s is like caring for a toddler I want to scream. It is such a dismissive comment for the person…
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young adult children of Alzheimer’s patient forums?
I am looking to connect with any other young adults that are helping caregiver for their parent. I am 28 and while most of my friends parents are healthy and well my father, my own personal super hero, one of my favorite people on earth is becoming someone I don’t even recognize anymore. Just looking for support from peers.
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New to this
Hello, My mother was diagnosed with Louie Body Dimentia 3 months ago and progressed quite quickly. She is in late stage 6. She is so weak that she is bed bound. 2 days ago she was put on hospice and we thought we only had days, but today she was having 1-3 word conversations and ate 2 corn muffins and half a sandwich. I…
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Dementia
My Dad was diagnosed with Dementia. He's a widower of 4 years, living alone and not wanting to be in Memory Care. His Home town Dr. and Home health care givers have deemed him to not be able to care for himself and I have had to put him in a home for his own well being. It has been difficult on all of us. He'd like to be…
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Young Adult Daughter of Dad with Dementia
Hi everyone! I'm 22, just came home from graduating college and sadly my Dad was recently diagnosed with Dementia after 2 years of agitation, aggression, and eventually psychosis symptoms. With the help of medication, we are so grateful to now get glimpses of the phenomenal superhero of a man/dad he was for me all my life.…
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New Treatment?
Hello, I recently read about studies using Benfotiamine to treat early AD and MCI. It seems to work. According to the NIH "Results: Participants were treated with benfotiamine (34) or placebo (36). Benfotiamine treatment was safe. The increase in ADAS-Cog was 43% lower in the benfotiamine group than in the placebo group,…
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Are home health care costs tax deductible?
I realize this is a loaded question that only a tax accountant in my home state (or) can answer but I wanted to do some research before engaging him. I have recently brought my wife back from a memory care facility and have engaged a home health care service to provide night coverage to address wandering. This is expensive…
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How to Persuade Loved One to accept Day Care or Home Help?
My family has just intervened, to help me accept that DH should no longer be home alone. I’ve tried to persuade him that we need more household help, but apart from periodic cleaners he doesn’t want anyone else in the home. He is still strong and able bodied, but making so many poor decisions. I do think he would benefit…
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Our last mile
*posting in spouse/partner forum too Well forum mates - friends, there have been many near-misses and false alarms on this long journey. My beloved DH has fooled us many times, or let's say trickster dementia has. Some of you will recall I saved his life at least a couple of times, knee-jerk reaction and loving instinct.…
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Refusing to eat/doesn't like food
I'm a part time caregiver for my grandma; she has alzheimers. We are at the stage where she doesn't like most foods. And even if we try to encourage her she will spit it out. Any advice? Things that have worked for yall? Even food supplements?
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Sex is not my friend
DH has been quiet about this for several months now. All of the sudden now he wants it again (he also has ED and things were not going well before). He grabbed a beer when we got home from church and then wanted to get all frisky. Unfortunately, I made the remark that he looked like he was more worried about getting a beer…
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Showering /refusing/thinking they have
I am a caregiver ,been one for 5 years. I have not ever came across anyone with this type of situation before. My client refuses to shower. She states that she already has taken one either morning or night but has not. Family has cameras up that proves she does not shower. I have used many tactics as to we can go to dinner…
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60 minutes interview
This was posted by a neighbor. Can you imagine being worried about retaliation for speaking about Alzheimer’s research?
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Opinions please!
Hello, I am 50 years old and both of my parents have been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s within the last 3 years (both of them are 77 years old). I also found out that I have the e4 gene (only one instance though). With this info, my PCP wants me to go to a neurologist. Would you go at 50? What if they see some signs? Or is it…
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Long Distance Mom has Dementia, and I am the only Child
Hello, I live a plane flight or 1.5-days driving away from my mom and I am only son. She has dementia and lives alone with her dog and cat. I can see her deterioration and have taken over all of her bills, taxes, online shopping, ordering food deliveries, etc for her. I have three children (teenagers) living with me and…
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Advice for Going Back to Work
I took FMLA for a year to assist with the new diagnosis of Alzheimers for my mom. It was intermittent FMLA so while I still worked, I was able to take off for appointments, my own mental health, and days that seemed like my mom just needed someone to be with her. I was averaging about 20 hours a week rather than my full 40…
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Filing for Long Term Care Insurance too early?
Hi, I am posting for the first time regarding my 83 year old Grandma. She has had cognitive and memory issues for years, but in the past month she was properly diagnosed with dementia. I had previously lived with her 3 years ago after she was a scam victim, but after about a half of year, I moved back home. I am now…
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How often do you visit your LO in Memory Care?
I am sure there is no routine or common visiting schedule. Someone recently asked me how often I visit my mom, and I told them about once a week. In reality, it is less than that. I guess I thought if I told them the honest truth, I would sound like a horrible person. Truth be told, I could visit my mom every single day…
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how to pay for long term care/MC
Hello, My father has unspecified dementia-has never been officially diagnosed. Like others, he refused to go to an MD in fear of being "locked up" in a nursing home. Now he's in the hospital- which brings up future plans of LTC or MC when the time comes. However, my mother has no Medicaid, no long term care insurance, and…
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My first post - coping as a young person in a family with a history of alzheimers
Hello, I am a 24 year old woman who helps to care for my grandmother who has alzheimers. I live about 3 hours from her, my mom and grandpa are her primary care givers. I make trips to visit about once a month. I have joined this forum in hopes of finding folks to talk to about my experience as a young person who has…
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How do I get my smelly DH to put on clean clothes?
My DH had mixed dementia, both vascular dementia and Alzheimer's. I gave up on trying to get him to bath. it has been at least a year since he showered or washed up. He used to change his clothing every few days but now he refuses. I have tried everything I can think of. He sleeps in his clothes including his socks.…
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Lumbar puncture?
I have read multiple posts in which loved ones mention their PWD getting a lumbar puncture as a diagnostic procedure for Alzheimer's. My question is this? Isn't that terribly painful and is it worth putting my LO through for a definitive diagnosis?
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I'm sorry for the download. I thought I was typing in another place... sorry. If I don't belong here
→ Shaun has joined S Shaun 16:46:51 first time here But I need help S Shaun 16:48:27 My step-father has dementia, Alzheimer's. S Shaun 16:49:58 we have him in a memory care unit nearby but its REALLY complicated. Not him being there. It's the urge to get him out S Shaun 16:52:29 ok going to stop with trying to make this…
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Caregiver
I started caring for my ex-husband who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s last August. We have been friends since we got divorced over 30 years ago. I sold my condo that I lived in for 23 years and sold his home and we have a mutual home now. I knew that this was not going to be easy, but I really didn’t know how difficult it…
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Pictures from Michael Ellenbogen's Trip to Africa
Attached are amazing pictures from Michael Ellenbogen's trip to southern Africa. Some of you know Michael from his time on this message board. For those who don't, Michael has dementia and has been a global advocate for people with dementia for many years. Enjoy the photographs.
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What to do in an emergency??
it’s me again haha. I play a game with my wife that I’m feeling ill and become unconscious I ask her what do yo do , by the time she even says I don’t know I could be gone. My question is what to do ? Has trouble using phone or remembering numbers or even where those numbers are , even 911 is an issue. She’s very bad with…
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When Does Long-Distance Caregiving Stop Working?
Hello. I already posted this in a group discussion, but figured this section gets more traffic. I was wondering—when does long distance caregiving stop working? I understand that at some point my grandmother won't be able to navigate technology/understand how things like FaceTime work, but I don't really know when that…