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Welcome! New Forum for Caregivers
This is a new discussion forum for caregivers supporting someone living with Alzheimer's or dementia from a distance. Perhaps you live in a different city or state.
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Long distance has separated us
Being long distant from a loved one has taken a toll. This has been a heartbreaking journey for all involved. Feeling hopeless and helpless and just want him here with us like he was planning on doing before Alzheimer's overtook him. Everyday is a struggle, everyday that goes by is a huge loss without him.I want to save…
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Therapist for father who is primary caregiver
Looking for an organization that specializes in virtual therapy/psychology services for caregivers.
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Official diagnosis & Medications
Is a official diagnosis needed to start taking medication (Aricept) to slow down memory loss? Mri showed brain atrophy more accelerated for age than should be & chronic vessel ischemic changes. Memory loss & behaviors are declining also Neurologist prescribed Aricept but can't be started without official diagnosis which…
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New here
My older brother has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, and I’m trying to understand what to expect and how best to support her. What are some things you wish you had known earlier in your journey caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s?
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Long-distance Caregiver for mother with AZ
Hello, my 80-year-old mother seems to be declining more rapidly this year (she was diagnosed in 2020 wit AZ). She lives in NYC and I moved to Boston,MA, in July from Los Angeles, CA, partly to be closer to her to make caregiving easier. She is very challenging, however, and I often feel lost as to what she needs because…
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New here, young adult child looking for connection and support
Hi, I’m 33 years old and my 74 year old mom was recently diagnosed, although we’ve seen it for the last couple years. I live in California and she lives in Ohio with my dad. I also have an older sister that lives a few hours away from my parents. Mom and I have been really close and talk on the phone every day on my drive…
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Sister w Alzheimer's wanting to take control of everything
My sister who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's is determined to re-take control of her finances, among other things. Neuro-psychological testing has shown she is incapable of doing so. She can't even write a check. Prior to diagnosis and testing, she had a year of not paying bills, having power or phone shut off…
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Dad very likely has dementia, but Mom terrified to "tell on him"
My sister and I live in Washington, with our parents in Arizona. We don't see them often. Recently, my mom has told us some troubling stories of his memory lapses, weird ideas, not understanding distance and time, etc. She is trying to get him diagnosed, but he gets angry very easily and she is terrified of upsetting him.…
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Automated pill dispensers
hi. Does anyone know of a good automated pill dispenser? I was on the alzstore.com and I ordered an automated pill dispenser made by med ready and it doesn’t work. For some reason I thought this store was connected with the Alzheimer’s Association, even though it doesn’t say so, and it turns out the return policy is really…
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Long distance caregiver
I am trying to care for my eldest brother who was diagnosed with dementia and June of 2024. And right now it's May 5th of 2025. And it has escalated so quickly I mean the progression of it has really taken off like a wildfire. I live in Tennessee he lives in Ohio and I'm constantly racing to Ohio check on him to make sure…
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Mom is constantly angry with my sister
My Mom was diagnosed with Alzheimers in the fall of 2022. She is understandably having a very hard time with the loss of her financial independence and is constantly accusing my sister of controlling her. We have POA and I tell her we're making the decisions together, but her anger is focused on my sister, who is the…
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Out of state sister with early Alzheimer's is stubborn, petulant and resistant to help.
I am her HCPOA and DPOA. Neurologist explained her diagnosis to her, and told her she needs 24/7 aides if she wants to remain in her home, that she may not drive or be responsible for her medication, and must use a walker (many falls.) But she states she does not have Alzheimer's, is rude to and fires every aide we hire,…
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Should we move our loved one
My ex has no diagnosis but has many symptoms of memory decline. She wants to move several states over to live close to hers and my son. But she can only afford an apartment 30 minutes away from my son. Does anyone know of similar situations and how they turned out? Thanks
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New Member, First Post - Power of Attorney
I have three siblings and one lives fifteen minutes away from my mom. I live in another state but manage all her finances and anything else I can to take the load off our sibling who lives locally. When I agreed to be my mom's power of attorney, I naively thought it would only come into play for her finances. However, this…
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New here and looking for advice
Hi, I am the 58 year old son of a 89 y/o father who is entering mid-stage Alzheimer’s. I live in California, and my parents live in Southwest Florida. I had recently taken FMLA to fly out for 3 weeks to help my 85 year old Mom find an assisted living facility for him(she is unable to care for him any longer). We did find…
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My mom forgot my name today
It's been two years in my mom has early onset and it's accelerating quickly. I'm 33 my mom is in her 60s my husband is in the military so I'm taking care of her at a distance. Until medicaid takes overy husband I have been paying out of our own pockets. My mom was my best friend we were close. I call her everyday and I…
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New Here & Just Trying To Keep Up
I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed and alone, and I’m so thankful to have found this group. I’m 29 and live in Georgia. My mom is 65, lives alone in Florida, and was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. My parents are divorced, and my sister isn’t able to help due to her own challenges. My mom’s brother offered support…
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She’s forgetting me.😢
My mom lives in Delaware. Near my sister and her extended family. I live in Georgia. We lost our oldest sister 2 yrs ago and an older brother 7 yrs ago. That leaves the two of us. I’m 62. My sister is 66. The other day my mom told her Dr that she had 4 children but only has one surviving child. (my sister) My sister…
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New to group - brother closing in on his dx
It’s been a tough few weeks as I’ve watch my 64 yr old brother (I’m 62) get the dx work up for Alzheimer’s. He had a neuro consult today to review blood and he’s definitely starting treatment for Alzheimer’s asap. He’s like a twin to me and I’ve just felt so sad all day. I haven’t had this sense of grief since our dad…
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Delusional talking
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Sad and scared
I am new here, and I's prefer to exist in denial but I know it's better to connect here. So here I go... My 75y.o. mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's (early stage) January 2nd, 2025. I live 4 hours away which is close enough to be available and far enough away to make it complicated and difficult. My maternal…
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Delusions
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Kisunla Treatment
I would like to speak to someone who has taken the Kisunla ( elie lilly) infusion treatment or is currently taking the Kisunla treatment. I have just been qualified by Doctor Joseph Cheng to receive this treatment to reduce the amyloid plaque. and before I start the treatment I would like to speak to someone who has taken…
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New to group and majorly overwhelmed
I'm trying to care for my grandmother from about 5 hours away. Her memory is declining quickly. I'm the only family to help her. I do have an aunt that lives 20 minutes away from her but my grandmother only trusts her so much and my aunt actually makes things worse. She lives alone and are working to get her into assisted…
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Haven't spoken to aunt in months with dementia
I live out of state. Aunt has dementia and incontinence. She has family who live closer. My cousin was good about giving me updates on my aunt when she wanted me to come and take over. Since I drilled that that was impossible, I rarely hear from her. I sent cousin a text asking how she was doing. She hasn't responded. Aunt…
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Frustrated
My mother is dealing with memory loss and refuses to see a doctor. We have tried to convince her that she needs to have a check up, she get physical with any of us it we try to put her in the car. How do you get someone evaluated if they refuse to go?
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My grandfather sudden change
Hello, my grandfather,87, has been slowly losing his memory and in more recent months it’s progressed to not remembering what’s happened that day or who visited. I go over to my grandparents house for a couple of hours once a week to stay connected to them. But today as I was visiting, I noticed a change in his behavior.…
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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 2/8/25
THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD Psalm 23 Amplified Bible A Psalm of David. 23 The Lord is my Shepherd [to feed, to guide and to shield me], I shall not want. 2 He lets me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still and quiet waters. 3 He refreshes and restores my soul (life); He leads me in the paths of righteousness…
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Long distance support options
Hi everyone. I'm new here. My 77 year old father was just diagnosed with Alzheimer's and I'm just starting this journey with him and my wonderful stepmom. But I live a plane flight away (or two day car drive). I'm looking for tips to support from afar. Scheduled phone calls? I want to keep my father engaged but it is hard…
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New to the group. Need a listener pls
Hi. My dad has dementia and in MC in a dif state. I’m his guardian and take care of things for him but haven’t talked to him in few months as I suffer from ptsd and he’s my trigger. He mailed me a letter of sorts - various scraps of paper, misspellings and incoherent sentences. I can’t stop crying. It’s so hard to see his…