Welcome. This is great place for help. My wife diagnosed 15 months ago moderate early dementia, she’s 77. She has short term memory loss no drive gets confused in denial really anosognosia.
Welcome to you both, you have come to the right place though we are all sorry you need to join us. If you look to the right under Groups, there is one for new members that collects a lot of good information and handouts in one place. Early advice always includes getting your legal affairs in order, accomplishing as much of your bucket list as you can, and planning ahead for future care needs including possible memory care or nursing home care. Unless you can afford private pay or have long-term care insurance, many need to handle their assets correctly so that you can eventually qualify your spouse for Medicaid.
If you read a lot of threads you will learn many things. I hope it helps you as much as it has helped me. There are people at every stage of the journey here, and we all try to help each other.
Newcomers, welcome. You found a great place to get understanding and support. People here have a lot of knowledge, and they are willing to share. Some say that the early stages are the hardest because it seems you are always going to doctors, and hopefully to see a CELA (certified elder law attorney), as well as everything else that needs attention.
Here is a link that most people find very helpful, especially when they are somewhat new to this disease. https://www.smashwords.com/extreader/read/210580/1/understanding-the-dementia-experience#hlangandcommun
I’m new here also. Oct 23 de was diagnosed with road. She’s 54. Dr at Mayo Clinic told us the disease probably started 5-7 years ago. Looking back, I now see that there were signs then but we never had a clue that it might be Alzheimer’s. Seems like each day we experience different progression of this disease. I’m glad to have found out about this sight as I will probably use it a lot.
Hello, my husband was diagnosed just over a year ago, rapidly declining, does his own ADL’s when reminded. He no longer sets up his own meds, no longer handles the finances. He can’t learn new things and can’t follow more than one instruction at a time, yet in his mind, he just has “ normal aging” even after being told he has dementia and this will get worse not better.
I still work outside our home one day a week, and have cut my work hours in half ( I am 60, he is 73)
it is scary and hard to face. I have found this to be a safe place, full of answers and good advice, no judgment here.
Thank-you for your responses. While it's reassuring to know you folks are going through this, too...it's disheartening to face the reality that growing older has these challenges. Guess it's where I am now and one day at a time, for sure. With some planning for down the road. Thank-you for some suggestions on where to begin with preparations for the long haul.
