I’m new to the discussion. I need help. I am struggling with the deduction to bring my father to my home in California. He currently lives by himself in another state has had a dementia diagnoses since 2017. Currently he his doctors have recommended for him not to drive. VA has only approved 6 hours a week of home health. I have no family support where he is. He’s forgetting medications not remembering to eat and is now starting to not comprehend certain things that are told to him. I am going to bring him to my home in a few weeks but have decided for his own safety and wellbeing I will not be taking him back home due to support out there and him living by himself. I’m struggling with having to make this decision. One I know his home is his safety net. Two and can still do things on his own and moves around well. Why is this so hard?